I think this blog by Rev. David Lose, who is on the pastoral staff at Mount Olivet Lutheran Church in Minneapolis, is well worth reading. The first half is directed to fellow pastors and preachers but is a nice introduction to Pastor Lose.
When he mentions Mount Olivet as you read, insert Bethlehem Lutheran. At the end is a TED Talk video by Brene Brown that he highly recommends watching — and so do I.
The link is below.